Mental Health & Well-being
At SSMJ, we believe in promoting positive mental health and emotional well-being to ensure that the school is a community where everyone feels able to thrive. Our school ethos, values and mission statement underpin everything that we do.
The World Health Organisation defines mental health as a state of well-being in which every individual achieves their potential, copes with the normal stresses of life, works productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to their community. Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel and act.
Good mental health and well-being is just as important as good physical health. Like physical health, mental health can range across a spectrum from healthy to unwell; it can fluctuate on a daily basis and change over time.
What we do in school
There is much evidence that pupils learn more effectively, if they are happy in their work, believe in themselves, have good relationships with teachers. A key component for well-being to be developed is that children feel safe at school, that school is supporting them and that they belong.
In school, we teach children about what it means to have good mental health and well-being throughout our curriculum and daily practice.
Our PSHE curriculum focuses specifically on developing children’s social and emotional skills which can prevent poor mental health from developing and help all children cope effectively with setbacks and remain healthy. It is about helping children to understand and manage their thoughts, feelings and behaviour and build skills that help them to thrive, such as working in a team, persistence, and self-awareness.
Things that can help keep children and young people mentally well include:
- being in good physical health, eating a balanced diet and getting regular exercise.
- having time and the freedom to play, indoors and outdoors.
- being part of a family that gets along well most of the time.
- going to a school that looks after the well-being of all its pupils.
- taking part in local activities for young people.
Other factors are also important, including:
- feeling loved, trusted, understood, valued and safe.
- being interested in life and having opportunities to enjoy themselves.
- being hopeful and optimistic.
- being able to learn and having opportunities to succeed.
- accepting who they are and recognising what they are good at.
- having a sense of belonging in their family, school and community.
- feeling they have some control over their own life.
- having the strength to cope when something is wrong (resilience) and the ability to solve problems.
Mental health doesn’t mean being happy all the time and neither does it mean avoiding stresses altogether. One of the most important ways to help your child is to listen to them and take their feelings seriously.
In many instances, children and young people’s negative feelings and worries usually pass with the support of their parents and families. It is helpful for the school to know what they are going through at these times, so that staff can be aware of the need and support this.
Coping and adjusting to setbacks are critical life skills for children, just as they are for adults, but it is important that they develop positive, rather than negative, coping skills.
If you are ever worried about your child’s mental health and well-being then, just as you would about any concerns that you have about their learning, come and talk to us. Sometimes children will need additional support for a short period – this may be in the form of a daily check-in with a trusted adult, time to talk through what they are feeling and support in developing ways of moving forwards with this.
If your child is distressed for a long time, if their negative feelings are stopping them from getting on with their lives, if their distress is disrupting family life or if they are repeatedly behaving in ways you would not expect at their age, then please speak to your child's teacher.
If things are getting you down, it’s important to recognise this. Talk to someone you trust and see what they think. It is easy to go on struggling with very difficult situations because you feel that you should be able to cope and don’t deserve any help.
Come and talk to us, in confidence and let us know when things are tough. As much as you try to hide how you are feeling from your child, they will notice even the smallest changes.
Go to your GP if things are really getting on top of you. Asking for some support from your doctor or a referral to a counselling service is a sign of strength. You can’t help your child if you are not being supported yourself.